Confident guys don’t use pick-up lines but insecure guys tend to — and from what I hear it seems many women would agree.
A genuine guy is interested in getting to know you and is secure enough with his own sense of self. If it’s meant to be it will work itself out and that translates to a natural style that’s hard to resist.
The other kind of guy is calculated and rehearsed with every move and word. One would think it wouldn’t be too difficult to tell the real from phony. In theory, perhaps — yes but perhaps in reality it’s not always easy to spot a line when you hear it. Even though I am an actor, I believe firmly in playing it straight forward and respectful with women.
If you think a guy is using a pick-up line, he may very well be using a perfectly crafted one.
If it all sounds too good to be true — think twice and consider it may be rehearsed; not an authentic or fateful meeting.
I hope you will consider a different perspective. Know what to look for and go for it. The good guys out there will thank you.